Curtains closes,
Emptiness looms,
Promises made,
Upholding words.
As it fades,
In the current of time.
Concealing emotions,
Accepting reality,
In the midst of sincerity.
Thank you for trying your very best to accept those feelings.
Even though things didn't worked out.
This is a post to reply to Teddy.
His question was "What is the meaning of 'Friend' "?
Generally, the word friend means a person whom we know, maybe not very well, but just in a brief aspect.
I think there is more to that. Being a friend, be it a close one,the best friend or just an ordinary friend, in the end, a friend will always be there to lend a helping hand whenever we're in trouble, or in time of need. A person whom we know, maybe have done something wrong or something that may make us sad, break our hearts, hurt us deep inside, or even make us cry, but that doesn't mean that this person, is no longer our friend or a person we call friend.
I m very sure, whenever any of our friends hurt us, or make us cry, they have a reason behind it. For an example, D is friends with R and S. In default, of course D would be helping both R and S. But there are situations where helping either R or S will in turn make the other party sad or hurt. If this happens, can we say that either one of the is no longer D's friend just because D made them cry or sad? Some of you may say that a true friend wont make their friends sad or unhappy. A true friend will share the pain and joy with you, regardless of the situation. They will know the best and fastest way to make us happy again, and if not, they will try their best and do whatever it takes to cheer us up. As least that is what i think. As what Teddy has written
"If a person can make you sad and cry, that means the person possesses a certain position within your heart; a person who is of no importance to you will definitely not be able to make you cry, correct?"
I think that this is indeed very true. Maybe he is just some guy you don't really know, but he has done something that is capable of affecting your feelings. Certainly, deep down in your heart, this person means something to you. Is he still considered your friend even though you don't really know him? My answer would be yes.
Even the best of friends have their argument and fights before. It is not easy to form such a strong bond by just seeing each other everyday or knowing alot about the other person. It takes a whole lot more than that.
A friend doesn't have to be a person who makes you happy, it can also be a person who makes you sad. The only difference is, how these "friends" affect your life.
There are times where best friends make each other cry, but that doesn't mean that they are no longer friends.
Give some time for your friends to understand you, as well as for you to understand you better. No one is perfect, Mistakes and failures are what makes us better, making friendships stronger. Friends are not something you can just buy over with money or looks. Real friends don't expect anything in return for a favor they have done for you. They would be more than happy to help you out, regardless of themselves.
Lets all try to be a little more understanding of each other, we are all humans after all, and we all make mistakes.
Cherish the friends that we have now, and also the people around us. We will never know when will be the next time we will meet again. Just 5 minutes or a simple greeting like " Hey! or Hi!" will do. I m sure they would be happy to acknowledge you the same way you acknowledge them.
Good night.
Why does it has to happen to me,
Of all the time in space, its has to be now.
Why do i have to feel so lost,
Drifting in an unknown continuum.
Why am i feeling like i am right now,
All jumbled up, confused.
Why do i wish so much to be someone else,
When some wished they could be me.
Was it something that i did before,
Or was it you have already decided?
Was i that insignificant,
To be left out in an instant.
Perhaps its just a way of saying goodbye,
Or a hint to tell me how you feel.
Was it me, or was it you,
Perhaps its us both, or none at all.
Perhaps when the time comes,
I will know; why.
